"Hey, buy my crypto scam!" That's 99% of Reddit DMs. Because the bar is so low, a good cold DM stands out.
The Rules of Reddit DMs
- Do Not Sell (Immediately).
- Make it Personal.
- Context is Key.
The Template That Works
Subject: Saw your post about [Make/Model of Car] / [Specific Coding Issue]
Body:
"Hey [Username],
I saw your comment on r/[Subreddit] about struggling with [Specific Problem]. I actually built a small tool/wrote a guide that solves exactly that.
No pressure at all, but if you want to check it out, it might save you some time.
Cheers, [Your Name]"
Why it works:
- Specific: It references a specific comment they made. (Proof you aren't a bot).
- Low Pressure: "No pressure at all."
- Helpful: Focuses on their problem, not your need to sell.
When to DM vs. Comment
Comment Publicly If:
- The answer benefits others.
- The thread is active/recent.
DM Privately If:
- The thread is months old (no one else will see your comment).
- The topic is sensitive (e.g., mental health, financial specifics).
- You want to start a 1-on-1 relationship for high-ticket sales.
Be respectful. If they don't reply, do not follow up. This isn't LinkedIn. One message is enough.